On Friday I volunteered at Kayamandi. I don’t remember if I mentioned this before but I am helping to teach kids basketball. There was nothing officially set up there. The teacher had forgotten to remind the kids about basketball but just showing up with the balls and walking down to the basketball court (it is an outside one not at the school) there was about 8 to 10 kids that wanted to play. We only had 2 balls, one was a real basketball and the other was a giant tennis ball, and their ability levels differed so much. So the older kids and me played a game of basketball. I would say the oldest one there was about 12. The younger kids worked with Trish where they passed the ball around. They didn’t speak English or if they did they spoke very little so it was difficult to communicate. Later 2 older kids in high school asked to join so they joined. It was a success but next week we need to start drills so we will see how that goes with the language barrier.
After volunteering I had training. I applied to be in a peer education on HIV/AIDS group and was accepted so that was exciting. So right after volunteering I went straight there. It has been all weekend each day and then not next weekend, I am going white water rafting next weekend, but the weekend after that there is another training weekend. I have met a bunch of South Africans through it and it has been very informative. I have learned how HIV works and the difference between HIV and AIDs as well as different treatments and stigmas attached to the disease. I have also learned about different statistics, facts, sexuality and different gender roles. It is fascinating to me especially since there are so many different cultures just in South Africa and their stances on homosexuality and roles of women. Oh man it is amazing. Today we were asked to write down 2 names of someone who we cared for deeply over the age of 16 so I wrote Billy, my boyfriend, and Amy, sister. The first was how would you feel if that person, Billy, told you that he/she had HIV or AIDS. This made me stop and think. I was expecting it to but when we were told to do this it made me stop and think. How different life could be and how hard it must be to deal with the fact. It really hit me. The next person was what would you want the reaction of Amy to be if you confided in her that you had HIV/AIDS. And it was crazy what I would want, being supported, comforted and held and what my initial reaction would be. It is something that I need to work on. I need to put my self in other people’s shoes. I discovered one of the facilitators that has been there helping us all weekend was HIV + we got to ask him and question that we wanted to. It was great and he was very honest with us. It is just strange because people have the idea that people with this virus are sickly but you would have never guessed about this man. He is a hemophiliac who contracted AIDS by a blood from the doctor. It was very very interesting and this program I feel has a lot of potential of influencing my life. I am going to go and get and HIV+ and AIDS test at some point while I am here, don’t worry I am almost positive I don’t have it, you can never know for sure, but I want to do it just for the experience. We are going to be doing different outreach programs and work in an outreach clinic and mentor others. I am not exactly sure what to expect but am looking forward to it. However this training was very draining and I am exited to go to bed tonight.
At this training I met Gatien a man from Gabon. It just so happened that Eric, he is in the same program with me and is from New Hampshire, and I sat with him at lunch one day and it was there Independence Day on Friday night but the celebration was on Saturday. It is there 47th year of being free. So he invited us to the celebration/reception that the Gabonese student organization was having for free! So we went and ate some Gabonese food. It was strange there is this root and tree that they eat that Gatien raved about, cassava, it was good but I wouldn't call it delicious. You can use the root and the bark for food and the leaves for roofs. Here is a picture of it from the internet as well as the red is where Gabon is on the map:


It was very neat to eat this food and there we met other people. We also got to see a slide show of different places there and it is a place that I would love to go. It looks gorgeous and it is a safe country. The national anthem was gorgeous as well, it was in French. After the dinner and different groups performed we danced. I learned some African dancing. You pretend that you are doing like pushups with your arms. Apparently I am improving, haha which is another way of telling me that you look awful but we like to laugh at you as you try. I also learned how to slow dance with them, but there is no way that I could repeat that. The man was leading and I give him all the credit. It was very neat there dancing is classier than the American kind and some of those women can really move. Also men and women both love to dance and they have there own version, very similar to, the electric slide. The music as great I would love to find a CD with this kind of stuff on it. It was also neat to see how proud the Gabonese were of their country and willing to talk to you about it. It was great!
I just got pictures from the evening. Here they are:
Me and Gatien
Eric and Gatien
Ben, Me, Gatien, Eric
This one makes me laugh a lot I was talking.
It is me and then a singer from a group who is from Kayamandi that perforemd they were really good.
Oh I love when it is cloudy here. I think that the mountains look so cool with the clouds covering the tops of the mountains. Here are the only pictures that I took this week Sorry,



so that was basically me week. I hope you guys are all enjoying your last few weeks of summer while it is beginning to become more and more summer like here! Stay well, Cheers!
1 comment:
Hello there Ellen,
Another filled and moving week. You sound like you really enjoyed your AIDS training. You also sound like you are enjoying the various cultures there.
What an experience!
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